By Amanda MacArthur | July 26, 2021

If you didn’t think you could have your cake and eat it too, then you clearly haven’t had what I consider the ultimate New England lobster roll recipe. See, in these parts, some people look at lobster rolls in black and white. Either you get it with mayonnaise (Maine style) or you get it with butter (Connecticut style). As someone from Massachusetts who is squashed between the two states, I’ve always been a “how about both?” kind of gal.

See, I consider myself a bit of a lobster connoisseur. When I go to Maine I make it my job to try every lobster roll within ten miles. Last summer I committed to one a day (we were there for seven days), and this year we’re going for ten days. The thing is, no lobster roll tastes the same, and I think you’ll feel the same way about the New England lobster roll recipe I’ve put together for you here, using an herb I think goes surprisingly well with it – tarragon!

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Tarragon and Lobster?

I’m not crazy, and I’m not the first to do it, either. But I totally understand why you’d think using black licorice-smelling tarragon to be a weird compliment to a lobster roll, but you’re wrong. Wrong, I say! I can’t explain it, but even though this fragrant herb has a name that sounds like a villain from Lord of the Rings, it’s a gentleman between a buttered bun, tossed with lobster and all the fixings.

If you’re considering growing tarragon, I suggest French tarragon instead of its coarser, less flavorful cousin, Russian tarragon. Like thyme, tarragon is a hardy perennial and can winter through zone 5 temperatures. Nearly impossible to grow from seed, it’s best to purchase plants or propagated from other tarragon cuttings.

How to Make a New England Lobster Roll

First, don’t get fancy with your brioche and pretzel buns—that’s not very New Englandy. What you need are New England-style buns so that you have plenty of bready real estate on each side to slather with butter and toss in a skillet like so.

As a pro-tip, it’s best to start with room temperature butter just like you would with grilled cheese so that you don’t go tearing up the bun while you slather it on thick. Then just toss it in a pan at medium-high heat for a quick toast.

Once it’s ready, you’re going to need to put a leaf of lettuce in the bottom of each bun so that it doesn’t get soggy when you add melted butter. Then, you’ll mix up your lobster salad ingredients in a bowl ever so gently.

Finally, you’ll load your lobster salad into the bun and maybe add a little more pepper and fixings if you like on tip. Finally, drizzle it with your melted butter and kablam, you have a fun New England lobster roll recipe that’ll please even your pickiest taste buds!

Sure, if you ask a New Englander, a lobster roll has either A.) mayo or B.) butter, and that’s it. But I’m a bit of a rebel, so here I’ve combined all my lobster roll research over the course of many authentic rolls in many corners of the New England galaxy to come up with what I consider the ultimate New England lobster roll recipe perfection. Try it out and let me know if you agree!